i am having a hard time not thinking about alcohol! i have been sobor for 8 days. has any one ever went through this did you make it what did you do that helped? I pray and talk to my family but i still want that beer please help!

What follows is a list of some of the scholars who held various opinions about Yazeed ibn Mua’wiyyah.

1. Imaam Muhammad Ghazzalee (d.505H)
Imaam Muhammad Gazzalee said he was a muslim with a correct aqeedah and a complete muslim and it is not permissible in the sharee’ah to curse and abuse him.

(see Ahyaa al-Uloom (3/108), Wafyaat al-A’yaan (1/328), Miratul-Janaan (3/176), al-Bidaayah Wan-Nihaayah (12/173), Hayaat al-Haiwaan (2/176), Sawaa’iq al-Meharqah (pg.222), Dhuu al-Ma’alee (pg.49), Sharh Fiqhul-Akbar (pg.87), Nibraas (pg.551), Shadhraat adh-Dhahab Fee Akhbaar Minal Madhab (1/69), Tafseer Rooh al-Ma’anee (13/73), Fataawa Azeezee (1/100), Fataawa Abdul-Hayy (1/60), Aqaa’id al-Islaam (pg.223).

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My oldest is 27,his brother 25. They both live away from me separately.I live 135 miles away .but visit the home town often because I have a daughter also,with a grand daughter I am very close to.I have given the boys so many chances to get their acts together since they were 17. Stood by them while in prison,homeless ,you name it.I had let them move back in so many times. Now the oldest has his own child,he has custody of her but does not do it well. It was a better choice than leaving the child with her mother who is more unstable than my son. My grand daughter appears to be Autistic,through everyone pushing him,he has done minimal things.But still denies that there is something wrong.He never raised a child,what does he know. I can’t be in his life and watch how he handles things and the child,who I hardly have any relationship with because he stayed away while he was with the mother. My 2nd son is an alcoholic.
He lives back with his father who has also been in prison due to his drinking,they have made nothing of their lives.They live with the grandmother who is disabled,treat her terrible,they have no respect for woman. I have no room in my life for alcohol abuse and I won’t tolerate it. BUTTTT…….it doesn’t stop it from hurting every day ,knowing the
relationship that I am missing out on. How can I cope with these daily feelings better? Thanks
In response to “I am Phoenix” ,I ahve done that route along time ago.That is how I made it through dealing with the father 10 years ago. All the actions are out of my hands now,they are grown and not even living in the same county near me. This is about me now.

I have been drinking vodka heavy for 2 years. I stopped this habit yesterday, but I’m having very annoying symptoms. My hands are shaking, I’m nauseous, light-headed, and had cold sweats all night. Also kept waking up with a feeling that something was crawling on my body. Also bruise way too easily. How long can I expect this to go on? When does it start getting better? Any personal experiences would be greatly appreciated!

I use to smoke marijuana and developed horrible anxiety disorder from smoking marijuana. Everytime I would smoke it, I’d have terrible panic attacks.

I just bought wine tonight, and I’m wondering if I will have a panic attack if I drink this wine? I rarely ever drink, so this is an occasional thing. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!
I haven’t drank alcohol since I’ve quit smoking marijuana.

After months of questioning my wife, she has finally admitted that she has a drinking problem. She claims to be suffering from Delerium Tremons. So what I have done to date is require that she go see a specialist. I have also locked up all of the alcohol in a cabinet, and will provide it to her at her request so I can get an idea of how much she is drinking. The issue is that she has gone out and purchased more and has been stashing it around the house. So I threatened to have her committed unless she comes to me direct to get her drinks. I have never shorted her nor said no. I just need her to allow me to monitor. I have not complained about being woken up at night to pour her a drink.

She starts treatment tommorrow. Does anyone know how much I should reduce and how fast to reduce what she drinks? She has had a past history of vicodin abuse, and she has been depressed for years. She also was sniffing gasoline up until last week. She was so out of control that she poured a glass of gasoline and hid it in the bedroom above the heating duct.

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even if you do not drink every day

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I mainly drinking when i have dreams about my exhusband…but we have been divorced for close to 4 years now, it was abusive marriage from him and his family. 2 nights ago I dreampt that we remarried and we were young like before…my depression never ends and anything you can think of I most likely tried it as major depressed. But, I’m sick and tiered of taking antidepressants all theses years and seeing counselors…they only make things much worse and all the meds i have been on have not helped…..what next? So i go back to drinking…. Please no spammer answers or hateful answers, I’m serious

Why is it that it wasn’t until after I finished vomiting 3 times tonight, I now feel like I have drunk past my limit as well as a hang over as well? Because it’s night time now, but I finished drinking at this morning around 8:30am. Is this alcohol poisoning and whatare the first things I should do about? Or is it mainly because I have IBS (for those that know what that is)?

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